Men and Sosial: Part II

How to attract and keep a good man?

STEP 1

Pay close attention to the man who expresses all his interest in you. Now, do not confuse being aware with coming on strong, just be yourself because what you were doing before you noticed this guy liked you, is what you must continue to do. Remember that is what attracted him to you!

STEP 2

Do not compare him to who you think or feel is "the perfect man". Ladies, you must remember, there is no such thing as a perfect man or woman for that matter. You must love this man for who he is because remember he loves you for you.

STEP 3

You set the standards. This is something alot of women don't know how to do and it is so important because what we think might be luring men in, can actually be running them away. There is nothing wrong with giving a little of yourself to a man, and by giving I do not mean physically. This too is why so many women have a hard time with men. We give them our physical being much too soon and if a man really and truly does love you, even in this lifetime, he will respect you more if you tell him "No".

STEP 4

In the end, follow his lead. While the woman sets the standards, it is still our job to make sure that we follow the man's lead. Once you have gotten comfortable with the guy, you have to let him be the man. Control in no way means de-humanizing, mistreating or abusing another person. Just allow the man to be what he was designed to be and that is "the head" of the relationship.